Elliot is 45, gainfully employed, lonesome, and looking for a pretty
young college girl to spend money on. Ideally he would serve as her
benefactor and mentor; she would express gratitude through sexual
favors. At the very least she’d accompany him to dinner on a Saturday
night and, if she understood the arrangement, give him a peek of those
lace knickers he bought her. If all went well between the sheets, he’d
even offer to pay her college tuition.
Elliot is fictional, but there are more than two million men like him registered as “sugar daddies” on the dating website http://sugardaddydatingsite.org,
many of whom are seeking out cash-strapped college students. One sugar
daddy who goes by the name “Bigbluewolverine” claims to make $500,000
per year as a private equity fund manager, according to his profile, and
wants to share this wealth with a destitute student. “With annual
university costs where they are how do students these days make ends
meet?” he writes, as though attempting to ameliorate the student debt
crisis. “I’m here to help.”
"Women hold 60 percent of bachelor degrees and drop out at a lower
rate because they are less discouraged by financial burden compared to
men," according to promotional material from sugardaddydatingsite.org.
"Nothing is wrong with having the determination to ask for help.
Clearly, more female college students are resourceful in achieving their
ultimate goal: to graduate with a degree.”
It’s not the type of methodology that would fly at Gallup, but the
results were nevertheless surprising, with only small differences
between elite universities and lower-tier state schools. “In the case of
Arizona State University, more than 60 percent of the students polled
said they could see themselves having a sugar daddy,” says Wade. “The
numbers are slightly lower at Columbia and NYU, but still significantly
higher than we would think.” Sixty-three percent of NYU students and 47
percent of Columbia students made the same admission. Even more
surprising is that NYU is number two on sugardaddydatingsite.org “Top 20
Sugar Baby Schools” list, second only to Georgia State University, with
its user base up 61 percent—from 543 students to 861—since the beginning
of the year.
But Wade is trying to upend what he sees as the myths of sugar
daddydom. “The misconception that the sugar daddy is a 75-year-old man
looking to date a younger woman, that’s taking a stereotype and focusing
on the extreme cases, but in reality sugar daddies are not that old,
and sugar babies are not that young. Average daddy is 39, and average
baby is 27,” he said.
And it’s something of a myth too that this is a phenomenon of the
Internet age, as evidenced by the abundance of
“stripping-through-college” memoirs. Desperate women, desperate for cash
is a large part of the fantasy for the sugar daddy. The key to the
fetish is that the women aren’t whores but ingénues, with the very real
possibility that their love is for sale. But that doesn’t make it any
less pathetic.
Indeed, Wade founded the website not with a grand social mission in
mind. Strip out the high-mindedness and the reason for sugardaddydatingsite existence is simple. Wade was having trouble
getting girls. “Having graduated from MIT with a dual degree, I was
having a really tough time dating. On the normal dating sites I was
outgamed by guys who had good looks or amazing bodies. My mother always
told me to focus on school and study—don’t worry about the women; they
will come when you’re successful because then you have the means to be
generous,” he told me.
It’s an innovative, if absurd strategy in combating America’s
mounting student debt crisis. But women attempting to sleep their way
through college will end up feeling more like trophy wives than
graduates by the time they collect their diplomas.
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